Any other “sandwich” people doing this with kids AND parents? I’m drowning.
I’ve got two kids (7 and 10), my dad moved in after a stroke last year, and now my dog Milo (6) was diagnosed with IVDD. He can still walk but it’s shaky, so we’re on strict crate rest, meds, pee breaks, the whole thing. The kids keep forgetting and trying to “help” by letting him out. My dad needs help with meals and PT exercises. I’m the only driver. 😞
Parents and multi-caregivers - how do you juggle kids, other family members and a sick dog without losing it? Also, if you’re the only adult, what happens when there’s a dog crisis and you’re supposed to be at work or doing school pickup?
Any real help or tips are appreciated.
Luckily, I work from home, but I live in a small town, Aix-les-Bains, France.
I’m gonna be the slightly cranky voice and say: if you can outsource one thing, do it. Even one dog-walker visit a week for a potty break (if your vet allows) or grocery delivery. People act like paying for help is “extra” but it’s cheaper than burnout.
For work crises - I told HR I have caregiving responsibilities and might need to use sick time unpredictably. Again, I didn’t lead with dog details. But I did eventually say, “I’m managing a medical situation at home.” Most places have seen worse. The secrecy adds stress.